Where there is Love there is life You have the necessary tools that can make choosing easier: Communication, honesty and trust. People are more likely to fail in their relationships when they refuse to use these tools. Stop thinking that you have to wait until you fall in love with a person to find happily-even-after. Love is a choice that you can make or ignore. Knowing Love is a choice will help you better manage your relationships when you have eventually found one, and you will be happy the rest of your life. Harry Benson, a clinical psychologist, who researches relationships, one of the world's leading experts on relationships, reveals how you alone can make love happen and why. If you're having trouble choosing the right person, the problem isn't you. The problem is your system. Failures in choosing the right person repeats itself again and again because you don't know how to make it happen all these years. But don't be weary, you are in the right place, where you will know how you alone can help yourself and make changes. Harry is known for his ability to distill complex topics into simple behaviors that can be easily applied to daily life. Here, he draws on the most proven ideas from past relationships to create an easy-to-understand choices for making good and healthy relationship. Learn how to: - Communicate your needs; ...and much more. Love is a choice will reshape the way you think about your love life, and give you the guide and strategies you need to transform your life.