Somewhere along the way, purpose became something you were supposed to discover—a singular calling, a defining mission, a moment of clarity that would finally make everything make sense. For most people, that moment never comes. And the waiting itself becomes its own quiet source of despair. This book explores the inner experience of searching for meaning in a culture that has made purpose sound like a destination rather than a practice. It examines the gap between the way purpose is sold—as passion, as revelation, as something you either have or tragically lack—and the way it actually develops in real lives: slowly, partially, through attention and small choices rather than dramatic turning points. At the center of this exploration is a reframe that offers something more durable than inspiration: meaning is not found. It is noticed, cultivated, and sometimes constructed from the materials of an ordinary life. That is not a consolation prize. For many people, it is the more honest and ultimately more sustainable path. This book offers insight into the psychological dynamics of meaning-making, how unrealistic narratives about purpose create unnecessary suffering, and what a grounded, evidence-informed relationship with meaning might look like for someone who has grown tired of waiting for a calling that never announces itself. It does not promise clarity or direction. It invites a more realistic and compassionate understanding of how meaning actually takes shape in a human life.