When Your Teen Can't Face School A compassionate, practical guide for parents navigating school refusal, anxiety, and overwhelm. When your teenager starts refusing school, it can feel frightening, confusing, and incredibly isolating. Mornings become battlegrounds or silent shutdowns. Confidence crumbles. Emotions run high for your child and for you. You may be asking yourself: Is this anxiety? Am I doing the right thing? How do I help without making it worse? This book is written for parents who are living that reality. Blending professional insight with real-world understanding, this guide offers clear, compassionate support for families navigating school avoidance in secondary school. It is grounded in psychological principles, current practice, and lived experience, including the author's own journey supporting her son through school-related anxiety. Inside, you'll find: A clear explanation of why school refusal happens (and why it's not laziness or bad parenting) How anxiety, overwhelm, self-esteem, and thinking patterns affect attendance What helps in the moment and what can unintentionally make things harder Practical strategies to support emotional regulation, confidence, and gradual re-engagement Guidance on working with schools and understanding your child's rights Reassurance for parents carrying guilt, fear, and exhaustion behind the scenes This is not a quick-fix or a one-size-fits-all plan. Instead, it offers steady, realistic support to help you feel less alone, more informed, and more confident in your next steps. Whether your child is still attending but struggling, partially attending, or completely unable to go to school right now, this book meets you where you are. You are not failing your child. And you do not have to navigate this alone.