This is a book written by a guy who's best friend taught him how to date girls better, because she dated girls too. Two best friends with similar interests and similar curiosities. This book came from our years in college where we would call each other at 3 am when we got off work and regale the other with what was going on in our dating lives. We learned to ask questions looking for real answers. we picked each others brains. we both had blonde hair and blue eyes, we both were three sport athletes and we both had a fondness for girls. we would go out to dinner's in Atlanta and chase women together at times. i was friends with all her friends and these girls were honest and open as to what a girl was probably thinking. I had an ally in the dating world. someone i could ask question to and I did, thousands of questions. and those questions and that curiosities formed this book. I learned things. i got better at dating. I got better at a lot of things. I hope you find it helpful.