The Benefit of the Ex: Making Love Visible When Everything Changes shows you how to reap the rewards, thrive, and come into your own after ending relationships that no longer serve you-all with an unapologetic boldness where everyone somehow wins!If you're in a relationship where you can't be yourself, you're playing a role in your own life. If your most emotionally life-sustaining needs aren't met, you've settled to merely exist. If you feel like each day you're losing a piece of who you are, one day you will disappear altogether.The Benefit of the Ex shows you how to be authentic for yourself and for the benefit of others. It awakens the sleeping spirit within you that has accepted existence as a normal way of life and reminds you to flourish and shows you how. This book directs you to build yourself back up by pulling together all of the lost pieces in order to create a stronger version of you.