The Nagging Myth exposes the truth behind one of relationships' most misunderstood words. When "nagging" enters the conversation, it obscures what's really happening-and keeps both partners stuck. This book breaks down the real dynamics at play: defensive filters, invisible labor, the cycle that captures you both. Grounded in research from John Gottman, Sue Johnson, and the latest work on cognitive labor, it offers a clear-eyed look at what's actually happening-and practical strategies for change. Part validation, part explanation, part roadmap. For women who are exhausted from asking. For men who want to finally understand. For couples ready to break the pattern. She's not nagging. She's asking for connection. This book shows how to finally hear each other.