If your parents had a bad marriage and you grew up seeing them in pain ..and growing up, you wish not to have the kind of marriage your parent 'gave' you, then you are smart.Understanding that there could be something better than what you have or experienced all your life and seeking ways to get a better experience is the first step to succeeding at anything.I have come to discover that people in 'bad' relationships are too afraid to leave -simply because they fear not seeing or getting someone better. But the truth is, you always will. In researching to figure out what makes marriages work, I began to ask the Holy Spirit question..and over time it came to me..." love alone do not make marriage work, one must find a compatible partner, one who shares sameness of mind and vision"What then is compatibility in marriage and how do I choose right?if that is your question...Then this book could be the anchor & guide you have been searching forChapter five gives you a compatibility check list to help clarify your doubts about how to go about choosing the right spouse for marriage.Do get a copy and thank me letter for writing it! (lol)Joy