Why do we obsess or over consume ourselves with the things and people we care about? I mean, we let our mind and hearts tell us what to do, and sometimes what the heart and mind tells us to do when we think there's a problem only complicates things more. When we care about someone, sometimes we are forced to take risky chances. Such as talking to them too much when sometimes wondering if that bothers them; the first time we ask him or her out. How to approach them and what to say and knowing when to take a hint if they refuse more than once. With all those thoughts spinning in our heads, sometimes we consume ourselves with fear that causes serious emotion and false actions that lead to bigger problems and destroy friendship with the person we care about.