Ever wonder why . . . Men freeze when women say, "We have to talk"? Men just can't pick up after themselves? Guys in restaurants choose the seat with its back against the wall? Most men hate surprise parties? The good news is that men are not from Mars and women are not from Venus, but the rest of the story is that we all -- men and women -- are animals, with instincts that tell us how we should feel, act, and react. Relationship expert Dr. Joy Browne explains that to understand how the man in your life thinks, talks, loves, stays, or strays, you need to understand the animal within. This doesn't mean you have to "tame" your man, but with Dr. Joy's trademark smart, funny, and nonjudgmental advice, you can get into his mind and figure out why he is the way he is at work or at play, in the boardroom, the bedroom, or in front of the TV. The result? A better relationship with your mate . . . and no more fighting like cats and dogs.