Are You Really Waiting: On God's Promise for a Divine Spouse? THE NEXT CHAPTER! gives a detailed explanation of how many do not receive a divine connection because refuse to wait on the Lord. Instead, they spend time dating, fornicating, masturbating, hating, instigating, contemplating, debating, skating, perpetrating, manipulating, and masquerading. While they are doing these things instead of waiting, others all around them are getting married to their God chosen spouses.