I believe there are three phases to a lady; we are born female, we grow into a woman and we become a lady by choice. "A Lady walks with integrity and character is the sum of her disposition, thoughts, intentions, desires, and actions. It's hard to describe the qualities of a lady because a lady simply is. What lies within her is ambiguous, and sophisticated. With all her many flaws, you see her and feel her presence as she enters and leave a room. You instantly know and never forget her because she's intoxicating. Remember, if you have to tell someone you are, you certainly are not a lady.