A transformational approach to understanding who you are—by looking at where you have come from. What are your earliest childhood memories? Were you afraid of the dark? Can you remember a particularly embarrassing moment? Those memories—along with the words and emotions you use to describe them—hold the key to understanding the person you are today! Drawing on examples from his own life, the lives of celebrities, as well as case studies from his private practice, renowned psychologist Dr. Kevin Leman helps you apply these same techniques to uncover why you are the way you are. Remember, “The little boy or girl you once were, you still are!” In this insightful self-help book, Dr. Leman guides readers through understanding: How your birth order shapes your personality, strengths, and weaknesses What questions to ask yourself to make sense of your experiences growing up How to leverage memories to improve your relationships and career So unlock that memory bank—pick a memory, any memory—and discover what makes you tick!