Marriage is hard, it has always been hard but perhaps in today's world with all the distractions and overall acceptance of divorce it is even harder to stay married that in years or generations past. How do you stay connected, how do you stop accusing and start fixing? Do you feel lonely and hurt? Do you blame your spouse or do they blame you for how they feel? Why can we not be happy and stay connected like we where when we were first married?"What are the things you do that contribute to the unhappiness in your marriage?""Do you blame your spouse or do they blame you for past transgressions?" "How can we move past the blame and start the healing process?""What makes a happy marriage?"