The desired effect of this inspirational book is to make the reader want to get out of bed, even though they are having trouble handling long-term waiting periods of life: infertility, ill health, unemployment, singleness, rebellious children, etc. Barber connects our deep longings with true stories and biblical examples. Each chapter deals with one topic. With humor she describes life on hold and how to find solace through fellowship, friendship, and partnership. She encourages us to look to God for affirmation while we are "in process".