Society says: Too many women, too few guys. Finding your perfect man is nearly impossible. You're a failure without a husband. Women of a 'certain age" should disappear! Don't notice lies authorities tell you. You are powerless. Take care of others first. Don't boss or make waves. Enlightened women say: Age is only a number-and mine is unlisted! If no one else gives me value, I give it to myself. I own and love designing my life. I learn what I want and go, heartfully, after it. Motherhood is a season in the life of a woman. I follow the truth of my soul and the truth of my being. This is the best of times-so many choices. I have learned to say no. My good heart, positive mind and healthy body are my greatest assets. Would you marry yourself? Once again, Jo Ann Lordahl lives and writes the book she wants to read.