Take it from a sexy, no-longer-married, adventurous Black lady trying to date in the New York City of the South. Determining if that right-swipe is a one-night-only, pleasantly temporary, or long term partner situation might as well be impossible. Nevertheless, Kaila Riggins still dates because dates are fun. Plus Kaila's personal list of petty relationship dealbreakers keeps her on the straight and narrow toward happy times and nice surprises. If you're also out in these dating streets trying to find a real one, in or outside of Atlanta, and you don't have your own collection of petty relationship dealbreakers then you may be doing yourself a disservice. Kaila welcomes you to take a look at her detailed list to get some inspiration.