Heart breaks are painful. Irrespective of the reason of the breakup, it hurts when a significant relationship comes to an end. The feeling of rejection can jumble up a person's emotions, leading him to feel totally unworthy. A person invests emotionally in a romantic relationship or marriage, but not all things are meant to be. Sometimes, due to unprecedented reasons, a relationship has to end. This might leave the person morose and bitter. But, no matter how deeply rooted the pain is, there is always a way to heal and get better. What is important at such a time is to know the right way to heal and to move on in life. In the very beginning the person should only focus on getting over the ex lover and getting back to his or her normal life. The denial to accept the breakup can be very harmful as it will lead us nowhere and make our life even more complicated. It is important to sort one's life and feelings after a break up.