At fourteen years old Tamika found herself in a relationship that caused her to question her entire existence. A relationship where her pet name was "dookie," and she was choked when she said "no" to having sex. He Loves Me Not, But I Love Myself! Details Johnson's battle with dating violence, low self-esteem, and her journey to happiness.Written specifically for teens, He Loves Me Not, But I Love Myself! is perfect for individual use, in group settings, classrooms, conferencs/workshops, and youth book clubs. Filled with thought provoking questions, a relationship inventory, Safety Plan Guide, and Dating Bill of Rights, teens parents and other adults will be inspired and motiviated to spread the message that, "Love Doesn't Leave Bruises!"